Pema Rabgay: Pema came to America in 1981, long before the resettlement program began. He met his wife, Tashi Lhamo, in 1992 and married the following year. Now they have a young daughter named Sonam. On raising children in America, Pema says "I think first generation immigrants have the most difficult time raising children. The parents are at work and the children are at school, and the children see their parents doing housework and they lose their parents as role models because the children want to be successful and they choose someone like Michael Jackson as their role model. I think what our daughter will get from us, her parents, are her moral values."